I decided to interview my boyfriend/fiancé. When I checked about it on google I found that so many people have already done it and I am not the first one to think about it. Although a bit disappointed about not getting the patent, I was glad that I will have some ideas on what to ask to him. I checked several sights and shortlisted 10 questions to ask him. Before unfolding the interview let me tell you some things. We have known each other for the last 7 years and our love relationship is celebrating it’s fifth anniversary this February.
I have asked him some questions before but not like this. Not this matter of fact serious types. This time I decided to do this in the proper way. And this is how it went.
1. What about me made you fall in love?
A. You are open minded. You always talked a lot. Our conversations and friendship were unique. And I wanted it forever.
2.. What is your favourite thing about me physically and why?
A. Your lips. Your lips have a beautiful shape.
3. What’s the one similarity between us that you absolutely love?
A. Same wavelength, our sense of humour is on the same level and our concept on most if the stuffs are alike.
4.What’s the one difference between us that you absolutely love?
A.You can multitask and I give my full attention to one thing at a time. Also you like to plan things, organise and be prepared while I am more like a lazy ass.
5. If our relationship ended, what’s the one thing about it you’d miss the most?
A. Our talks. We never stick on to some particular topics. We always talk about a lot of things no matter what its relevance is. We have that kind of relationship. It’s really awesome that with one person you can talk about anything and everything without being judged.
6. Favourite thing to do together?
A. Late night talks. It’s fun and it’s sometimes informative also. We should sit and talk a lot at nights.
7. Favourite thing I said to you
A. I love you. ( That’s on me, I shouldn’t have asked that question to such a lazy ass)
8. If you have to choose a movie for us to watch together, which one will you choose?
A. Raja Rani (A Tamil Movie)
9. If you could change one thing about me what would it be?
A. Being negative, approaching things with a prejudice. Being a pessimist in silly matters. Being a push over, sacrificing things so that no one gets hurt. (Looks like he got a long list for that question )
10. How have you grown since being in a relationship with me?
A. I have become a feminist. I started to think from a woman’s perspective. I have become more funny. I have tried to become more organized.
So that’s it. It was really nice to do such an interview with him. He cooperated completely with me. I guess he had no other choice.
Anyway, it was fun for both of us. So next time I am going to interview one of my best friends. Ciao…